Typically, the least favorite topic of any sub (except maybe the masochist ones Haha) Yes It happened. I'm independent, strong willed and stubborn (insert as much irony as you want here), which all conflict with being a sub so finding that balance often needs some guidance if you will, especially at first.  He wasn't the type that was the over the knee spanking. He would either go cerebral or physical depending on what happened. Once he brought over a twink and fucked him and did some of my favorite things with him while I watched and then he didn't play with me for a week (that was rough). There was one time I fucked up (played with someone without his permission) and he found out and that was a very physical event. Slapping, non-face hitting, Yelling, followed by very rough and painful throat and ass fucking. Not the fun rough but the kind where you want it to stop so bad there are tears and when they cum is like angels singing the Halleluiah chorus and you are sore AF the days following.

I was his personal Groomer for those private hard to reach areas. I would shave his balls for him, Lower back, his ass and hole. Trust me you really get to become close to a guy when his legs are spread, and you are right in front of his hole. He even had me trim his toenails for him. Not that he couldn't do it, but he found it hot as an act of dominance. I actually enjoyed all of it, because it turned him on and what he did after was worth it.

This was something that was new for me. Don't get me wrong, I had been with dominant guys before but the way he went about it was different and at least for me very effective. Let me explain; certain actions were done to establish dominance and maintain that. Things that constantly let the sub know who is in charge and that his needs and wants are paramount to those of the sub. Some of the ways this was done were:

- The first time we fucked it was no poppers allowed and minimal lube. He wanted me to clearly feel him go in. He fucked for a while and had me cum while was fucking. He continued to fuck until he shot. Oral service followed after that then he wanted to fuck again after I had cum, not the most comfortable. He told me later he did that so that the sub is no longer concerned with his needs/pleasure and able to focus on that of his Doms. 

- His Fingers were always in my mouth it seemed like. He never said why but I read online later it's a sign of dominance and control with guys, having one of their appendages in the mouth of their sub was a representation of having their cock in a mouth when it couldn't be there. Also, majorly into foot worship, feet on my face, etc. 

- He was always on Top. One position we never did was me riding him which is fine cause it's my least favorite. His favorite was missionary (BIG On eye contact) and then stomach. The few times he did doggie he would have me ass up face down and plant his foot on my neck or face while he fucked. He loved to face fuck, his favorite position would be to straddle my chest with my head up on a pillow so I couldn't move my arms and he had total control. He also loved having me flat with my legs in the air for a 69, he would rim me while his cock was buried balls deep in my throat and I couldn't move.

- Loved wrestling, submission holds etc. He enjoyed the challenge of defeating me so we would wrestle, and the man was 6' tall and in good shape, no way I was going to beat him. But he would love pinning me down, scissor holds, headlocks, etc. until I tapped out. Tapping out turned him on big time.

This is actually a subsection of the one above but almost needed its own section also. This was new for me as well, but he was the very Alpha type, Primal Male... (humorous given his job, some marketing thing but a suit and tie 9-5 gig) but he believed a sub and Dom could have a biological connection as well, his sub given time would be able to recognize his scent, voice and taste. He felt the more of the Doms fluids the sub ingested the closer then became. So anytime we played he would always spit in my mouth (which is hot AF btw), he would get sweaty when fucking and grab onto me, so it was on me also, I had to swallow his piss when he wanted. Shortly before it ended, he started a new thing where if I was there, I couldn't drink anything, If I wanted some water or something he would drink it, hold it in his mouth then spit it into mine. Weird AF at first but kind of hot later. For the scent aspect, my face was rarely not partly covered during sex. When he fucked or rimmed or anything like that, he would want me smelling his underwear or socks, something about memory of that smell would trigger pleasure in the future. When I would give him head, he would have me pause and just smell his crotch area for a while, inhale his scent he called it. Afterward we would lay there, and he would have his arm up and my head resting in his pits for the scent as well. He said if we did it enough it would be a pheromone connection, he wasn't wrong.

The first time we met.  I went over and he was sitting on the couch. He had me get down my knees in front of him and wait while he was watching tv. He at one point told me to take his shoes off and then lay flat on my back. I did and he put his socked feet on my face, socked toes in my mouth etc. while lying there. He then told me to remove his socks, and then he had his bare feet on my face and in my mouth. He then told me to get on my knees in front of him while he stood up. I was told to remove his pants and he sat back down, spreading his legs in nothing but his underwear. He pulled my head down to his crotch between his legs and said not to move. There wasn't much air there, all I could smell was him. Stupidly hot turn-on, but anyway. I was there for a good 10 minutes at least I think, till he moved me pulled off his underwear and had me suck on him for a long time. After a while of that he had me on my hands and needs facing the couch. Took his sock and stuffed it in my mouth and took his shoe and put my face in it on the couch while he went behind me and started rimming me. That is my weakness omg. He did that for a long time and then tried to fuck me, tragically I'm tight AF so he quickly realized that wasn't happening and took me to the bedroom. He laid on the bed and I had to start at his feet and work my way up, worshiping his feet for a while then moving up to his cock/balls, he pulled his legs up so I could rim him until he was very turned on. At this point his had me on my back, legs over his shoulders and was going to fuck me good and proper. He had lubed up just enough to go in; I was semi-loosened up from the rimming. I asked if I could get my poppers out of my bag and he said no, he wants me to feel every part of him the first time. He wasn't huge but wasn't small, may around 7-8" uc. But my ass is tight so he felt huge, good thing he went slow, he could see the struggle on my face at first. I had closed my eyes to relax but he said no and told me to look at him. He finally got in and bottomed out balls deep. He let it relax there for a bit before he started moving in and out and going at a good pace. After a while I had loosened up and was really loving it. He would bend down and kiss me for a while, pull back a bit and let a drop of spit fall into my mouth. He then sat up onto his knees a bit and pulled me closer, grabbed my cock and jerked me while he moved in and out a bit, guess what I shot in like 5 seconds I was so turned on. It went everywhere, all over me, all over him. He bend down and gave me a deep kiss and whispered "my turn". Now I don't know if its the same for other bottoms but for me, when I shoot my ass seals tighter than vault at a bank. He started to slowly move in and out and pick up speed. After a bottom cums, having a cock in there is uncomfortable as fuck. But he was just getting started, he fucked for a good 15 minutes at least, could have been more or less dunno. I was on my back, stomach, at one point bent over the bed etc. The last position was the first, he had me on my back and was going full speed. He was sweating, he would spit on my face, call me his good bitch and then very loudly said look at me and shot deep inside. We laid there for awhile after, he explained why he had me cum first etc. My time was running out so I had to go, we went and got cleaned up. While he was washing off his chest he told me to get down on my knees and take him in my mouth. I was thinking he wanted some head before I went but he said Don't move. Suddenly my mouth filled up, he was pissing. There was no option but to swallow so I did, my god did he have a lot. When he was done, he said good boy and we finished cleaning up and I left. Several hours later that night I got a text from him. He said he didn't ask there since he wanted no face-to-face pressure and to give me time to chill. He asked in the text am I ready to sign? I said definitely and the next time we met I brought the agreement with me.

          Another time we met; I went over. Came in, and as soon as turned around after closing the door. Smack, right across the face. (not the kind that knocks you to the ground but the kind that you feel still) I instinctually replied back "what the hell" yea well that was a mistake because he did it again and said you never talk to me that way. He pushed me down on my knees pulled out his cock and had me suck, he grabbed the back of my head and facefucked,  holding me all the way down etc. After awhile of doing this he took me over and bent me over the back of the couch. I saw lube and poppers sitting on the cushion. He grabbed the lube and told me to take a hit and brace yourself. I did a couple before he started lining up to go in, he was not going gentle. No time to relax, ease into it etc. He basically got the tip in and then kept going till he was all the way in. Oh, it hurt like hell at first. He fucked very fast and very hard, the couch actually moved forward. He didn't take long before I heard him yell fuck and he shot deep in me. He pulled out and told me don't clean up just get dressed and go home I'll text you later. I later found out he had a shitty day at work, and I was his relief. 

        One day I was at work (he knew my work schedule so he could have me come over any time after work) and got a random text from him wanting me to come by after work and what time I would be able to, so he had time to go to the gym. I hadn't planned on meeting him that day so had to improvise some things. So, after freshening up and leaving work I went to his place. I knocked, nothing, the door was locked. I texted him, he said he was 2 minutes away. When he had gotten there, he had just left the gym, literally. He was soaked, there were beads of sweat on his head, the front of his shirt was soaked. We went inside and of course me thinking he was going to shower; no I was wrong. We went to the bedroom he peeled off his shirt, took his shorts off over his shoes. Same with the underwear but threw them on the bed and grabbed me and started making out. We did that for quite a while, the man was wet. His arms, chest back everything. He pushed my shoulders down to give him head, I could smell that he had been working out. I gave him head for a while and he sat on the bed and laid back, legs up and had me rim him. He did have the man smell to him, no doubt about it. Everything was sweaty. But it was hot, there is a huge difference between normal man smell, workout, etc. vs unshowered rank man. His was the hot one, the other is gross. But anyway, he put me on my back and started to rim me for along time. Didn't take long till he was inside me and fucking like it was his last fuck. Clearly I was his cardio because he fucked for at least half an hour min, the man was sweating like crazy. At one point I felt like I was out in the rain. It was hot as hell, he was drenched, I was getting soaked from him. After what had to have been a marathon fuck he yelled out and shot. Collapsing on top of me afterward I could feel his hot breath panting in my hear and neck. His back was so soaked with sweat I could have squeegeed it off him. After he had rested he had me wash him off in the shower. We changed the sheets and I went home

      There was one time he was in a romantic mood or something because I went over and it was soft and gentle, Lots of making out, touching, feeling, licking. When he fucked he put in in slow, let me adjust to it and fucked while kissing me at the same time. I was digging it. For an hour we alternated fucking, then sucking/rimming him, sometimes dropping down to his feet to worship them also. The last position he was standing and had me at the edge of the bed with my legs up fucking. His rhythm was staggered, asked if I was close and I said definitely he said good he wanted me to cum with him. I could see the change in his face and so I sped up jerking off and we shot at almost the exact same time. That was hot 

     This one is very polarized. Some guys find it a turn off and some guys find it hot as hell. We had just played the day before, great fuck session. It was one of his more aggressive ones so I was a combination of in a very very good mood and sore at the same time. (bottoms know what I'm talking about) But anyway he hit me up saying he wanted head. No problem, I was closing that night so I didn't have a ton of time after and giving head is easy and always gets him off. I went over and he way laying in bed jerking off to porn so I crawled in and my usual started at the feet and worked my way up. I gave him head for awhile, rimmed, him. He pulled me up to kiss him (I was on top straddling him) and felt his fingers start to move around my ass. When he moved them he was grinding on me. He put me on the side and eventually got on top, straddled my chest with my head propped up on a pillow and was face fucking me. This is great I thought, Love this and he cums from this fast. Well I was wrong, He did that for awhile then grabbed the lube on the nightstand and put my legs up. I immediately tensed up, (Not for the reason some guys think, when I actively with a guy I take fiber, watch my diet etc so I am not worried if we have something more spontaneous) I tensed up because my ass was sore as fuck from the night before. I looked at him and said can we not, I'm pretty sore. He said don't worry he will go slow with lots of lube, I am primed so will cum quick. And he did, the first part at least. Lubed me up, slowly put it in, starting with the head and let it rest there and slowly went all the way down. I kid you not it felt like someone was shoving a tree up there, my ass was not having it. I tried to push him back a little bit, but he moved my arms and kissed me and said trust me just breathe and relax. He started to move in and out slowly, it was hurting but tolerable cause I assumed he was going to cum fast. He started to speed up and that was the breaking point , I told him please stop it hurts to bad and started to scoot back while pushing on his thighs. He wasn't having it, he pushed forward, buried balls deep told me to shut the fuck up, your mine and I want to fuck. He then let himself go, fucking like crazy. I actually tried to get away, tears were in my eyes cause it was hurting. I started to yell at him a bit and tell him to stop, he grabbed the pair of underwear he kept on the nightstand (he always has his day old ones around when we play) and stuffed them in my mouth, held my wrists down and fucked. I couldn't do a damn thing, couldn't move my legs as they were over his shoulders and between his arms, my wrists were held down. It was essentially a rape, but not a rape because he did have full consent in the agreement. He fucked for I don't Know 5-6 minutes, felt like an hour before he shot and collapsed on top of me. He stayed in till he got soft and popped out. My ass was on fire and sore as hell. When he got off me, he kissed me and said good boy, clean yourself up and go home. So I did, on the short drive home I was a combination between pissed as hell and turned on at the same time. We texted back and forth that week, he didn't mention it, I didn't bring it up. We met up a week later and it was just oral only, he got me off with him. The next week we fucked again, he told me he gave me a couple weeks off to heal up and to always be ready to be fucked.